Friday, August 10, 2007

My views on Marriage

Woohoo, was at east coast park from like 4 to 9 plus with my net peeps.
Never thought captain's ball would be so tiring and violent! my gosh, yisi was like tackling me to the ground for the ball pls. The girls use unfair means of getting the ball. :( we cant touch them, but they can push us like free and tackle us. not fair. oh well.
Then, the girls started playing the "old eagle catch small chicken"(translate to chinese) game, then want us to play. Haha, all the guys just sat down can. haha.
Oh, then later when we were going to get our dinner, pamella reminded me its been a year and a day since the really eventful national day last year. where there was suspense, horror and drama coincidentally at east coast park too. haha. Time flies. Before i know it, A levels will be around the corner, then NS where i will be patriotically serving the nation.
Today's net lesson was interesting, yisi started off by asking everyone " what do you see yourself doing in ten years? " some ppl were just fantazising, while some of us were realistic and levelheaded. haha. In ten years, (minus 1 year a levels, 2 years ns, 4 years of degree) i wanna be having a stable and wellpaying, but not necessarily too much, job. propose to my girlfriend, get married, find a house. etc.etc. but, call me traditional, i believe that marriage requires devotion, commitment, and sacrifice. if you are going to be a selfcentred party in a marriage, it will break down. Marriage is not about wad you can benefit from it, but its about wad you can give. seriously, i am sure most of us( at least ) will want your spouse to be the perfect, sadly they wont be, but are you willing to be tolerant to their weaknesses and flaw? accomodation leads to a great relationship. Just a shout out for people to think not twice, not thrice, but many many times about marriage. Its for a lifetime, sure you dun wanna regret it 20 or 30 years down the road. k, enough ranting and philosophy lessons.

Take a look at some of the cool photos we took today!

This is the attitude photo.


this is the "wanna fight ah?" photo.



Thats all for now, gotta go wash up, then pray and read my bible, then sleep. till tomorrow. salmon signing out.

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